Comments on: If It Ain’t About Love http://www.polyamorousmisanthrope.com/2004/08/15/if-it-aint-about-love/ Wielding the Stick of Grandmotherly Kindness Sun, 05 Feb 2012 00:09:44 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: The Polyamorous Misanthrope » Blog Archive » Intimate Connections and Really Hot Sex http://www.polyamorousmisanthrope.com/2004/08/15/if-it-aint-about-love/comment-page-1/#comment-29241 The Polyamorous Misanthrope » Blog Archive » Intimate Connections and Really Hot Sex Thu, 30 Sep 2010 11:56:19 +0000 http://www.polyamorousmisanthrope.com/?p=22#comment-29241 [...] Arrogance is only attractive to a very small subset of humanity[1].  I see that you have two options:  Keep the arrogance and accept that your search is gonna take awhile, or maybe consider the wonders of a little humility.  You’ve been open a year and a half, for pity’s sake.  If you’re pattin’ yourself on the back for how damn loving you are, you really might wanna reconsider your attitude.  I’m all for love, but self-congratulations ain’t about love.  [...] [...] Arrogance is only attractive to a very small subset of humanity[1].  I see that you have two options:  Keep the arrogance and accept that your search is gonna take awhile, or maybe consider the wonders of a little humility.  You’ve been open a year and a half, for pity’s sake.  If you’re pattin’ yourself on the back for how damn loving you are, you really might wanna reconsider your attitude.  I’m all for love, but self-congratulations ain’t about love.  [...]

]]> By: S. http://www.polyamorousmisanthrope.com/2004/08/15/if-it-aint-about-love/comment-page-1/#comment-8705 S. Mon, 09 Feb 2009 14:48:49 +0000 http://www.polyamorousmisanthrope.com/?p=22#comment-8705 Thanks for linking to this today. I needed it. Thanks for linking to this today. I needed it.

]]> By: The Polyamorous Misanthrope » Blog Archive » Help Me With My Homework http://www.polyamorousmisanthrope.com/2004/08/15/if-it-aint-about-love/comment-page-1/#comment-8704 The Polyamorous Misanthrope » Blog Archive » Help Me With My Homework Mon, 09 Feb 2009 04:01:44 +0000 http://www.polyamorousmisanthrope.com/?p=22#comment-8704 [...] love.  I’m not very fluffy, and Ceiling Cat knows I’m a bit on the stern side, but if it ain’t about love, you’re probably doing it wrong. 1I’m answering this as an individual because [...] [...] love.  I’m not very fluffy, and Ceiling Cat knows I’m a bit on the stern side, but if it ain’t about love, you’re probably doing it wrong. 1I’m answering this as an individual because [...]

]]> By: Joedelta http://www.polyamorousmisanthrope.com/2004/08/15/if-it-aint-about-love/comment-page-1/#comment-6629 Joedelta Sat, 13 Sep 2008 20:16:46 +0000 http://www.polyamorousmisanthrope.com/?p=22#comment-6629 The "Love is..." stuff reminded me of the King Missile song: Love is beautiful Like birds that sing Love is not ugly Like rats In a puddle of vomit Love is beautiful Like the sunshine And the dancing wind Love is not ugly Like pus And lice And tobacco snot Love is beautiful Love is beautiful Like all the little animals In a forest full of green That smells like pine And wonder Love is not invisible brain control And pain And malicious intent And lying all the time Although it can be all of these things And more Love is a many splendoured thing It is not a shitload of slaughtered pigs Rotting and festering In the bleeding desert Love is what love is And love is not What love is not The “Love is…” stuff reminded me of the King Missile song:

Love is beautiful
Like birds that sing
Love is not ugly
Like rats
In a puddle of vomit

Love is beautiful
Like the sunshine
And the dancing wind
Love is not ugly
Like pus
And lice
And tobacco snot
Love is beautiful

Love is beautiful
Like all the little animals
In a forest full of green
That smells like pine
And wonder
Love is not invisible brain control

And pain
And malicious intent
And lying all the time
Although it can be all of these things
And more

Love is a many splendoured thing
It is not a shitload of slaughtered pigs
Rotting and festering
In the bleeding desert

Love is what love is
And love is not
What love is not

]]> By: The Polyamorous Misanthrope » Blog Archive » Back to Basics http://www.polyamorousmisanthrope.com/2004/08/15/if-it-aint-about-love/comment-page-1/#comment-2349 The Polyamorous Misanthrope » Blog Archive » Back to Basics Mon, 12 Nov 2007 04:02:42 +0000 http://www.polyamorousmisanthrope.com/?p=22#comment-2349 [...] to go back and find that first. It’s the most important thing. No, really. I’m serious. If it ain’t about love, it ain’t worth bothering with. Make sure what you’re doing is really love, [...] [...] to go back and find that first. It’s the most important thing. No, really. I’m serious. If it ain’t about love, it ain’t worth bothering with. Make sure what you’re doing is really love, [...]

]]> By: Geri http://www.polyamorousmisanthrope.com/2004/08/15/if-it-aint-about-love/comment-page-1/#comment-4 Geri Mon, 19 Mar 2007 15:52:13 +0000 http://www.polyamorousmisanthrope.com/?p=22#comment-4 Good article... Good article…

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