Monthly Archives: June 2007

What Do I Want?

Posted on June 24, 2007 by Goddess of Java

Mama Java’s been ranting about asking for what you want and explaining why it’s important to do so lately. Yeah, yeah, that’s all cool and groovy and evolved and shit. What if you don’t know what you want? Valid concern. … Continue reading →

Posted in Communication, relationships | 3 Comments

The Emotional Bank Account

Posted on June 17, 2007 by Goddess of Java

I used the expression in my Vetos article about the Emotional Bank Account, and would like to explore the concept a little more in depth. The Emotional Bank Account is the level of trust you and your partner(s) have between … Continue reading →

Posted in Love, relationships | 4 Comments

I Shouldn’t Want That!

Posted on June 10, 2007 by Goddess of Java

Quick quiz: When I ask for something I ask for What I think I should want. What I think I can get that is closest to what I want. What I want. I chose what I should want. Okay, sure, … Continue reading →

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I’m okay, you suck

Posted on June 3, 2007 by Goddess of Java

As is often the case, I had my cranky pants on during an Internet discussion and started ranting about how fringe groups often like to get self-congratulatory about what better people they are. This ain’t a polyamorous phenomenon, mind. As … Continue reading →

Posted in The Polyamory Community | 3 Comments