Monthly Archives: June 2008

Who Do You Love Best?

A good friend of mine and I were discussing the new Dr. Who series and some of the socio-political issues, when we had an interesting and rather telling conversation. Now, we’re both poly. That becomes important to the conversation. I … Continue reading

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But that Disqualifies ME!!!

There’s been a few discussions going around various polyamory communities talking about relationship rules, tastes in physiques, and a lot of other things. Part of the discussion will invariably involve why some standard or another is wrong. When you dig … Continue reading

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Mawwaige

Same-sex marriages are now legal today in California. I have mixed feelings about this. On the one hand, I am thrilled for the people who want to marry legally but haven’t been able to up until now. I wish every … Continue reading

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Stupid Poly Tricks

Polyamorous people, while we’re supposed to be smarter, more loving, more together and all that nonsense…. Well, we’re not. I wanted to compile a list of Stupid Poly Tricks. You know, dumb shit I’ve seen people do in the name … Continue reading

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A Good Touchstone

We all have our standards for choosing loves. That’s cool. We should. I’d like to share one of mine: How does he treat someone he isn’t interested in gettin’ busy with? If there’s a significant gap in kindness, courtesy or … Continue reading

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