Monthly Archives: July 2008

They Don’t Deserve Your Trauma

Do you have something in you life that tweaks you, makes you reactive? (Hint: Most people do — ‘spart of being human). Maybe it’s Something Really Big. Maybe it’s a small tweak. It’ll become a filter, sometimes, and it’s funny … Continue reading

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The Partner Data File

We all like to do things that make our partners happy. It’s part of the fun of a relationship. A friend of mine is dating a new person. That person’s spouse had kept a file for many years on things … Continue reading

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When the Metal Meets the Meat

“I’ve been in few famous last stands, lad, and they’re butcher shops. That’s what Blouse’s leading you into, mark my words. What’ll you lot do then? We’ve had a few scuffles, but that’s not war. Think you’ll be man enough … Continue reading

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Mule Hoof Prints and Chocolate Sprinkles

I hope my faithful readers will forgive a departure on my part from my usual reserve about sexually explicit discussion. But it was quite an evening… Recently, I had an opportunity to try a Sybian. This is more or less … Continue reading

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