Comments on: When the Metal Meets the Meat http://www.polyamorousmisanthrope.com/2008/07/14/when-the-metal-meets-the-meat/ Wielding the Stick of Grandmotherly Kindness Tue, 06 Jan 2009 03:08:24 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 By: Bookmarks about Self http://www.polyamorousmisanthrope.com/2008/07/14/when-the-metal-meets-the-meat/comment-page-1/#comment-6583 Bookmarks about Self Mon, 08 Sep 2008 16:00:29 +0000 http://www.polyamorousmisanthrope.com/?p=109#comment-6583 [...] - bookmarked by 3 members originally found by TheEmoGuy555 on 2008-08-18 When the Metal Meets the Meat http://www.polyamorousmisanthrope.com/2008/07/14/when-the-metal-meets-the-meat/ - bookmarked by 1 [...] [...] - bookmarked by 3 members originally found by TheEmoGuy555 on 2008-08-18 When the Metal Meets the Meat http://www.polyamorousmisanthrope.com/2008/07/14/when-the-metal-meets-the-meat/ - bookmarked by 1 [...]

]]> By: Wolfger http://www.polyamorousmisanthrope.com/2008/07/14/when-the-metal-meets-the-meat/comment-page-1/#comment-5671 Wolfger Sat, 19 Jul 2008 12:59:16 +0000 http://www.polyamorousmisanthrope.com/?p=109#comment-5671 Not sure, but I believe that's a personal perception change rather than a general perception change. Dunno... I haven't been all that active in the community. I'm headed towards 5 years with A&B (15 years with B). Damn I'm old. Not sure, but I believe that’s a personal perception change rather than a general perception change. Dunno… I haven’t been all that active in the community. I’m headed towards 5 years with A&B (15 years with B). Damn I’m old.

]]> By: Goddess of Java http://www.polyamorousmisanthrope.com/2008/07/14/when-the-metal-meets-the-meat/comment-page-1/#comment-5634 Goddess of Java Thu, 17 Jul 2008 00:26:16 +0000 http://www.polyamorousmisanthrope.com/?p=109#comment-5634 Back where there was a perception that poly marriages did not last as long as traditional ones, OLQ (My former quad) had commented on a list that we'd been together two years at the time. Someone said, "That's your Silver Anniversary in poly years!" You're right. Things do change! But I'm glad to see an 18 month old family is called "relatively new" now. Good perception change, in my opinion. Back where there was a perception that poly marriages did not last as long as traditional ones, OLQ (My former quad) had commented on a list that we’d been together two years at the time.

Someone said, “That’s your Silver Anniversary in poly years!”

You’re right. Things do change! But I’m glad to see an 18 month old family is called “relatively new” now. Good perception change, in my opinion.

]]> By: Tina http://www.polyamorousmisanthrope.com/2008/07/14/when-the-metal-meets-the-meat/comment-page-1/#comment-5633 Tina Thu, 17 Jul 2008 00:23:44 +0000 http://www.polyamorousmisanthrope.com/?p=109#comment-5633 I'm in a fairly new poly-family (1 1/2 yrs). I am constantly in shift mode with my partners. There never really is a long period of more than a few minutes at a time (even then, it's random) as to when every one is happy all at the same time. You're right, there is NO magical formula for making it work. My partners and I live with the constant notion that we are all variable and that some day, we might not be together. Sure, I'm the newest member and I used to think that I would never change. Lo and behold, I am changing. I am learning that it is not how I feel that changes, but it's how I choose to deal and act with those emotions. I’m in a fairly new poly-family (1 1/2 yrs). I am constantly in shift mode with my partners. There never really is a long period of more than a few minutes at a time (even then, it’s random) as to when every one is happy all at the same time.
You’re right, there is NO magical formula for making it work. My partners and I live with the constant notion that we are all variable and that some day, we might not be together.
Sure, I’m the newest member and I used to think that I would never change. Lo and behold, I am changing.
I am learning that it is not how I feel that changes, but it’s how I choose to deal and act with those emotions.

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