Comments on: Ask the Misanthrope: Telling the Truth http://www.polyamorousmisanthrope.com/2008/09/29/ask-the-misanthrope-telling-the-truth/ Wielding the Stick of Grandmotherly Kindness Thu, 02 Sep 2010 14:07:48 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: C. J. Czelling http://www.polyamorousmisanthrope.com/2008/09/29/ask-the-misanthrope-telling-the-truth/comment-page-1/#comment-7052 C. J. Czelling Sun, 12 Oct 2008 19:03:48 +0000 http://www.polyamorousmisanthrope.com/?p=174#comment-7052 It's not exactly the advice I would have given which is not to say that yours is wrong. IMHO first he should have asked himself what he would want if he and his wife had reverse feelings toward the couple. Personally, I have frequently had sex with people that I only "liked". If you can't make love to your friends, who's left, your enemies? I will say that a couple of times I have had sex with people that I didn't particularly like. One time it work out pretty well and we came to at least like each other. The other time it was a total disaster, but that's life. With all of love, C. J. Czelling It’s not exactly the advice I would have given which is not to say that yours is wrong. IMHO first he should have asked himself what he would want if he and his wife had reverse feelings toward the couple. Personally, I have frequently had sex with people that I only “liked”. If you can’t make love to your friends, who’s left, your enemies?

I will say that a couple of times I have had sex with people that I didn’t particularly like. One time it work out pretty well and we came to at least like each other. The other time it was a total disaster, but that’s life.

With all of love,

C. J. Czelling

]]> By: The guy above http://www.polyamorousmisanthrope.com/2008/09/29/ask-the-misanthrope-telling-the-truth/comment-page-1/#comment-6927 The guy above Fri, 03 Oct 2008 07:59:43 +0000 http://www.polyamorousmisanthrope.com/?p=174#comment-6927 Thank you for the advice above. I think it is important to note the outcome of this talk that I had above. I discussed this with my wife, and she discuessed it with the other couple. In the end she left me and is now with the other couple. Telling the truth is important, but you have to be prepared for all possible outcomes. Telling the truth does not mean you get what you want. Thank you for the advice above. I think it is important to note the outcome of this talk that I had above.

I discussed this with my wife, and she discuessed it with the other couple. In the end she left me and is now with the other couple.

Telling the truth is important, but you have to be prepared for all possible outcomes. Telling the truth does not mean you get what you want.

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