Monthly Archives: August 2009

I Thought We Were POLY

Polyamory is about love and intimacy, right?  So poly people are the lovingest, mostest intimate cuddlemuffins out there.  If you find someone wants to keep the slightest bit of themselves to themselves, they’re not really poly.  People that need space … Continue reading

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Respectful Communication and Mind-Reading

Not too long ago, I was in the living room working idly on some material.   The Prince was in his room on a teleconference with a client.  Our son was wandering through the house as he often does, waving a … Continue reading

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Perspective: Grab Some — it’s FREE!

This guest column is by Edward Martin, III This is something I don’t understand. If I say “There’s no such thing as a white pigeon” and someone shows me a white pigeon, I have to admit I’m wrong, right? I … Continue reading

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Ask the Misanthrope: Secondary Rights

I’d like to see a column on “secondary” relationships and/or on the concept of how setting boundaries in a multi-adult relationship works in a relationship that actually works. The quotes there on secondary are because I know the whole concept … Continue reading

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