Comments on: Ask the Misanthrope: Jealousy? http://www.polyamorousmisanthrope.com/2010/03/08/ask-the-misanthrope-jealousy/ Wielding the Stick of Grandmotherly Kindness Sun, 05 Feb 2012 00:09:44 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Goddess of Java http://www.polyamorousmisanthrope.com/2010/03/08/ask-the-misanthrope-jealousy/comment-page-1/#comment-20428 Goddess of Java Mon, 08 Mar 2010 19:34:43 +0000 http://www.polyamorousmisanthrope.com/?p=394#comment-20428 Not everyone has a primary/secondary paradigm, but yes, having your shit together is a good idea for relationships. Not everyone has a primary/secondary paradigm, but yes, having your shit together is a good idea for relationships.

]]> By: ~c http://www.polyamorousmisanthrope.com/2010/03/08/ask-the-misanthrope-jealousy/comment-page-1/#comment-20427 ~c Mon, 08 Mar 2010 19:29:45 +0000 http://www.polyamorousmisanthrope.com/?p=394#comment-20427 As being in a 24/7 poly relationship. I have found if the "Primary" relationship suffers from a problem (underground communication problem) the secondary will feel this between the two partners. It is better to have both of your shit together before bringing in a third, because as stated above love is a very powerful thing. When you bring a third or possibly more, you don't want to be or have them feel like a band-aid. ~c As being in a 24/7 poly relationship. I have found if the “Primary” relationship suffers from a problem (underground communication problem) the secondary will feel this between the two partners. It is better to have both of your shit together before bringing in a third, because as stated above love is a very powerful thing. When you bring a third or possibly more, you don’t want to be or have them feel like a band-aid.

~c

]]> By: Randall http://www.polyamorousmisanthrope.com/2010/03/08/ask-the-misanthrope-jealousy/comment-page-1/#comment-20418 Randall Mon, 08 Mar 2010 15:29:07 +0000 http://www.polyamorousmisanthrope.com/?p=394#comment-20418 I think that's the strongest answer to a "jealousy" question I've ever read. Kudos to you! I think that’s the strongest answer to a “jealousy” question I’ve ever read. Kudos to you!

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