Monthly Archives: July 2010

Want to be valued? Value YOU!

Posted on July 29, 2010 by Goddess of Java

I need advice. My girl and I began exploring the “lifestyle” about 2 years ago.  At some point mid way, I discovered that I was having nervousness block my performance, in my opinion because many encounters seemed rushed.  I talked … Continue reading →

Posted in Ask the Misanthrope, Communication, relationships | 1 Comment

You’re All Fucking Idiots

Posted on July 8, 2010 by Goddess of Java

About seven or eight years ago, I was unemployed over a summer.  Well, not so much unemployed as I was looking for “Real Jobs” through a temp agency and being what’s now called Virtual Assistant[1] intermittently, and cleaning  up the … Continue reading →

Posted in rant | 2 Comments

Ask the Misanthrope: Coming Out as Poly

Posted on July 3, 2010 by Goddess of Java

Dear Polyamorous Misanthrope, I recently started a relationship with a person who has never been poly before. We’ve been dating for a little over a month and things have gotten really emotionally intimate, really fast. It’s wonderful and we’re both … Continue reading →

Posted in Ask the Misanthrope, boundaries, polyamory 101 | 1 Comment