Monthly Archives: August 2010

My Wife Doesn’t Understand Me

Posted on August 27, 2010 by Goddess of Java

“I’m in a mid-life crisis, I guess.  The passion is out of my life and I’m looking for something more.   My wife doesn’t understand me.” Any polyamorous person on a dating site is almost sure to get a message like … Continue reading →

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Handling Jealousy: How to Fuck Up

Posted on August 18, 2010 by Goddess of Java

I’ve been seeing more than the usual amount of discussion about jealousy on various poly boards lately, so I figure this might be a little topical to people.   I have pulled out of the air the Definitive[1] Five-Point List of … Continue reading →

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Patient Griselda, or, Minding the Gap

Posted on August 2, 2010 by Goddess of Java

Mama Java is lounging on the beach right now.  Well, okay RIGHT NOW, I’m probably getting sunscreen on squirming little children, collecting beach chairs and making sure everyone has their towels, but I am at the beach this week.  Here’s … Continue reading →

Posted in Communication, Guest Column, polyamory 101 | 3 Comments