Monthly Archives: September 2010

Intimate Connections and Really Hot Sex

It’s time to reach into the Goddess of Java’s mailbag and see what strange and wonderful questions come up. It seems that I have found myself in a crossroads about whether it is in fact possible to find people who … Continue reading

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Can a Polyamorous Marriage Last?

Today, my husband and I have been married twenty years. Now, unlike a lot of married couples, we never were monogamous.  It’s part of the reason why I choke when people ask how to transition from a monogamous relationship to … Continue reading

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19 and Perfect Boobs

My primary partner and I had been togetehr and monogamous for 7 years.  One day she started chatting up and exbf form 15 years back, went and saw him, kissed but nothing else, and talked on a daily basis.  I … Continue reading

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