Monthly Archives: February 2012

Looking Vanilla and the Law in Polyamory

Posted on February 28, 2012 by Goddess of Java

Hi Ms. Java, A friend of mine is having difficulty with his ex wife. He’s in an open relationship with a married woman (who’s husband knows), and he is concerned that his ex’s new love may be hurting her and … Continue reading →

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Disclosure When On the Prowl

Posted on February 14, 2012 by Goddess of Java

Ok. So, I am a poly mama, in an open relationship that has its own nuances and complexities, like any other relationship of any flavor. Dilemma, nutshell: I have for the first time opened an OK Cupid account. I have … Continue reading →

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You Have to Choose

Posted on February 7, 2012 by Goddess of Java

Hi Java, I’ve been with my man 9 years and am deeply in love with him, however, I’m also in love with another woman. I’ve loved her since before I met him – but only recognised recently that it was … Continue reading →

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