Category Archives: polyamory 101
Am I Ready for Polyamory?
Have you been considering polyamory? Wondering where you want to go with your relationships? Do you wonder if you’re really ready to take the leap? If you’re wondering, that’s good. It means you’re thinking. Mama Java approves of thinking about … Continue reading
The Partner Data File
We all like to do things that make our partners happy. It’s part of the fun of a relationship. A friend of mine is dating a new person. That person’s spouse had kept a file for many years on things … Continue reading
Who Do You Love Best?
A good friend of mine and I were discussing the new Dr. Who series and some of the socio-political issues, when we had an interesting and rather telling conversation. Now, we’re both poly. That becomes important to the conversation. I … Continue reading
But that Disqualifies ME!!!
There’s been a few discussions going around various polyamory communities talking about relationship rules, tastes in physiques, and a lot of other things. Part of the discussion will invariably involve why some standard or another is wrong. When you dig … Continue reading
Stupid Poly Tricks
Polyamorous people, while we’re supposed to be smarter, more loving, more together and all that nonsense…. Well, we’re not. I wanted to compile a list of Stupid Poly Tricks. You know, dumb shit I’ve seen people do in the name … Continue reading
Should You Have a Group Marriage?
Should you have a group marriage or multi-adult household? No. Surprised? Really, there’s no reason to be. I do not consider group living The Ideal Way to Live. Oh, yes, it can suit people and and there are many that … Continue reading
Back to Basics
In any physical art you study, be it dance, martial arts, swimming, or team sport, one day, you’ll go to class or practice and the coach/teacher will announce with an evil gleam to the eyes, “We’re drilling the basics today.” … Continue reading