Category Archives: rant

You’re All Fucking Idiots

About seven or eight years ago, I was unemployed over a summer.  Well, not so much unemployed as I was looking for “Real Jobs” through a temp agency and being what’s now called Virtual Assistant[1] intermittently, and cleaning  up the … Continue reading

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The One Penis Policy

Many moons ago, I ran across a term that just tickled the hell out of me, both for its succinctness and its applicability to many polyamorous situations. I wish I’d come up with it, because it’s just that good. It’s … Continue reading

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Sexual Tastes

If you have a sexual taste and think you’re the only person who has it, you’re probably wrong. If you have a sexual taste and think that everyone shares it, you’re probably wrong. This has been a Public Service Announcement … Continue reading

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Tips To Couples Looking to Add an Additional Person Into Their Relationship

This column is written by guest author Holly Bernabe.  She wrote it to try to help people posting sex or relationship ads to polyamorous discussion list why the list reaction tended to be less than stellar, and to help them … Continue reading

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Wishful Thinking Doesn’t Work

I don’t usually rant at monogamous people.  Polyamorous people in general provide more than enough rant fodder and idiocy to be going on with.  But a couple of incidents have bubbled across my brain in the last few months that … Continue reading

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Personal Ad Translation Service

Personal ads tend to have their own code.  You won’t realize exactly what the person is really expressing until you get involved with them.  So here I am, in my infinite generosity, to explain a little about this and decode … Continue reading

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