Category Archives: The Polyamory Community

I’m on Vacation

I’m on vacation, so damn’f I’m writin’ something important! Ask me a question, either here or via email, and if it entertains, horrifies or piques my interest, I might write about it/snark it/answer it with all the sober seriousness in … Continue reading

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Join the Dust of the World

Sure, you can fly, but that cocoon has gotta go! When we’re newly poly, especially if we’re fortunate enough to have found a poly community in which to participate, it is not unusual to dive into this new community with … Continue reading

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A Tacit Interview with Franklin Veaux

Franklin Veaux is a long-time polyamory writer and commentator. He’s still working on a book about polyamory. I encourage you to poke him to finish the damn thing! I wanna promote it here, dammit. First things first: Basic stats. Who … Continue reading

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PolyWorks Fund Logo Contest

The PolyWorks Fund Charity is really taking shape and we’re in the process of starting the site now. We know that the polyamory community is full of talented, creative people and so, we’re going to ask for a little help … Continue reading

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Online Support

A lot of poly people turn to online groups for support in their poly lives. As one of the co-founders of one such group, do I think they’re a good thing? Of course! Thing is, it’s a good idea to … Continue reading

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How to Be an Activist

An article has zipped around the polyamory community in the past week. An advice columnist answered a letter from a polyamorous reader. A lot of people didn’t like the answer the columnist gave. No, I’m not going to sound off … Continue reading

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Doing Well by Doing Good

I often get what appears to be a wild hare across my butt to encourage crazy things to happen. In reality, I think about things for several months or years and then bring them up when the time looks right … Continue reading

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Dependent/Independent/Interdependent

Community is important. (Yeah, yeah, I know, big shock that I’d say that. Stop pretending to have a heart attack). I’ve been preaching boundaries and acceptable behavior for many months here, and the reason I do it is because community … Continue reading

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Polyamory, FLDS and Cults

I’ve noticed some talk on the polyamory discussion boards talking about fundamentalist Mormon polygamy and how it makes the polyamory community look. Because polyamory is hardly on the general public radar, there is some concern that any non-monogamous relationship will … Continue reading

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Polly Wally

I have a Serious Confession to make. There’s a video that’s been around for awhile called Polly Wally1. After several years, I finally managed to watch it all the way through. No, not because it’s bad. Quite the reverse. It’s … Continue reading

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