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	<description>Wielding the Stick of Grandmotherly Kindness</description>
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		<title>When It&#8217;s Working</title>
		<link>http://www.polyamorousmisanthrope.com/2009/06/24/when-its-working/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Jun 2009 12:45:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Goddess of Java</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I know I haven&#8217;t been updating much.  There are several reasons for this.  The biggest is that one can only say, &#8220;Don&#8217;t be a fucking idiot&#8221; in so many ways before the message begin to get a little monotonous.
The other is that I&#8217;ve been leading a life so devoid of drama that I&#8217;m not analyzing [...]]]></description>
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		<title>No Means No</title>
		<link>http://www.polyamorousmisanthrope.com/2009/05/25/no-means-no/</link>
		<comments>http://www.polyamorousmisanthrope.com/2009/05/25/no-means-no/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 25 May 2009 04:00:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Goddess of Java</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Ask the Misanthrope]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Hail, O Caffeinated one!
Dear Goddess &#8211; here&#8217;s my situation:
My husband and I have been together for four years, and married for two. He knew I was poly from the get-go, and while he has never yet expressed an interest in another woman, I&#8217;m obviously not opposed to the idea.
&#8216;Tain&#8217;t as obvious as all that, I [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>7</slash:comments>
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		<title>The Mistress Paradigm</title>
		<link>http://www.polyamorousmisanthrope.com/2009/05/18/the-mistress-paradigm/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 18 May 2009 04:00:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Goddess of Java</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.polyamorousmisanthrope.com/?p=300</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Dear Goddess:   I have a couple of questions about navigating my poly relationship and I&#8217;d love your advice. First, a bit of background.   My husband and I began a polyrelationship with one of my best friends about 6 months ago. Working out my jealousy has been truly difficult, but also rewarding [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>7</slash:comments>
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		<title>Ask the Misanthrope:  How to Meet People</title>
		<link>http://www.polyamorousmisanthrope.com/2009/03/23/ask-the-misanthrope-how-to-meet-people/</link>
		<comments>http://www.polyamorousmisanthrope.com/2009/03/23/ask-the-misanthrope-how-to-meet-people/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Mar 2009 04:00:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Goddess of Java</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Ask the Misanthrope]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.polyamorousmisanthrope.com/?p=295</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I have a question for you and I&#8217;ll give you a bit of a background on my history with poly in order to help you understand my quandry.
After about 8 or 9 years of marriage my wife met a poly couple, realized she was poly and fell in love with the husband. I have since [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>1</slash:comments>
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		<title>Help Me With My Homework</title>
		<link>http://www.polyamorousmisanthrope.com/2009/02/09/help-me-with-my-homework/</link>
		<comments>http://www.polyamorousmisanthrope.com/2009/02/09/help-me-with-my-homework/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Feb 2009 04:00:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Goddess of Java</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[polyamory 101]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[I was recently asked if I&#8217;d consent to an interview, but the questions were pretty good and basic, so I&#8217;m posting them here:
1. What are common misconceptions you have found with polyamory?
Probably the most common is that partners are disposable or interchangeable on some level.  The culture that surrounds the monogamy paradigm also has a [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>7</slash:comments>
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		<title>The Care and Feeding of Unicorns</title>
		<link>http://www.polyamorousmisanthrope.com/2009/02/02/the-care-and-feeding-of-unicorns/</link>
		<comments>http://www.polyamorousmisanthrope.com/2009/02/02/the-care-and-feeding-of-unicorns/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Feb 2009 04:00:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Goddess of Java</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Guest Column]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Mama Java is off visiting, so Cinema Babe has generously consented to fill in with this column.


 It All Begins With A Personal Ad

&#8220;Hi, we&#8217;re Dot and Jim, a friendly, stable, professional couple who would like to meet a vivacious, unattached bi woman. Dot is 36 and bi, Jim is 43 and straight and we [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>13</slash:comments>
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		<title>Does It WORK?</title>
		<link>http://www.polyamorousmisanthrope.com/2009/01/26/does-it-work/</link>
		<comments>http://www.polyamorousmisanthrope.com/2009/01/26/does-it-work/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Jan 2009 04:00:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Goddess of Java</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[polyamory 101]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.polyamorousmisanthrope.com/?p=279</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[In studying the alternative lifestyles and communities of the US in the past 200-odd years, there has been an attempt to judge whether or not these communities are good.   That&#8217;s fine in the context of a rigid social system or system of morality against which it present a background or framework.
Unfortunately or fortunately, depending on [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>7</slash:comments>
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		<title>How Do I Meet People?</title>
		<link>http://www.polyamorousmisanthrope.com/2009/01/19/how-do-i-meet-people/</link>
		<comments>http://www.polyamorousmisanthrope.com/2009/01/19/how-do-i-meet-people/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Jan 2009 04:00:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Goddess of Java</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[The Polyamory Community]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[polyamory 101]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationships]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.polyamorousmisanthrope.com/?p=275</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Okay, either you&#8217;re single or you&#8217;ve got your primary relationship solid.  You&#8217;re centered in loving each other, you&#8217;re communicating great.  Now, you&#8217;d like to meet poly people and form some more fantastic relationships.
SCREECH!
How?
That&#8217;s going to depend on a lot of things.   Where you do you live?  Off the top of my head, if you live [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>6</slash:comments>
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		<title>The Questionable Content of Unspoken Assumptions</title>
		<link>http://www.polyamorousmisanthrope.com/2009/01/05/the-questionable-content-of-unspoken-assumptions/</link>
		<comments>http://www.polyamorousmisanthrope.com/2009/01/05/the-questionable-content-of-unspoken-assumptions/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Jan 2009 04:00:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Goddess of Java</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.polyamorousmisanthrope.com/?p=272</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m a big fan of the online strip Questionable Content.
One of the more recent strips has a couple of characters have a discussion about sex and relationships that I found interesting.
For those poor souls who have not yet had the opportunity to become fans, the two characters are friends with benefits.  The male&#8230; well, he [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>4</slash:comments>
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		<title>I Have Something to Tell You</title>
		<link>http://www.polyamorousmisanthrope.com/2008/12/22/i-have-something-to-tell-you/</link>
		<comments>http://www.polyamorousmisanthrope.com/2008/12/22/i-have-something-to-tell-you/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Dec 2008 04:00:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Goddess of Java</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Guest Column]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.polyamorousmisanthrope.com/?p=265</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[This week&#8217;s column is a guest piece by Edward Martin, III.
How do I &#8220;break the news&#8221; I&#8217;m poly?
This question rolls around a lot, especially on boards and meetings where there&#8217;s a lot of new folks, or folks that have just started dating, or aliens that have only recently arrived on Earth and haven&#8217;t quite figured [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>15</slash:comments>
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